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I have been a fan of Rae Grant and her work since I first laid eyes on her beautiful books Cooking Fun and Crafting Fun. Over the course of the past year we’ve enjoyed many lovely e-mail exchanges and I was thrilled and honored when she asked me to be part of her book tour for her latest book, Homemade Fun: 101 Activities to do with Kids.

It is my great pleasure to introduce Rae Grant and to share this space with her today.

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EBG: How did you come to do the work you are doing?

RG: Books and handmade paper have always been my medium for creative expression. I always have my own ideas about things so I found making books to be a happy medium for that tendency. My book projects come from my own experience and interests. It’s fun and I feel lucky to have a publisher like St. Martin’s Press who supports my approach.

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Please tell us about your family.

I live with my husband and daughter in New York City. My husband is an architect and I am a book designer. I’d say we have a fundamentally creative household while balancing all the complexities of modern living. It’s fun, busy, and challenging but we know when to relax and unwind.

Do you have a television in your home? If yes, can you describe when/how it is used? If no, how long have you been TV-free?

We have a TV in a non-central part of the home and usually watch the news or public television programs. I am not impressed with the junky side of TV culture (to put it mildly), and would rather see children playing cards, reading a book, building a project, baking in the kitchen, or running around outside. One reason I wrote the book trilogy Crafting Fun, Cooking Fun and Homemade Fun was to offer modern kids and families an alternative to TV, computer, and thinking that ”fun” has to be bought at the store. Living simply is a value that shouldn’t be underestimated. It seems extremely important to many families these days given the current state of the world.

What can you share with us about your creative process? 

I work in a small home studio in my apartment. When I do a project it is all encompassing. I sort of live with the project whether it is short or long-term and work on it constantly. It is always a bit of a relief (to me and my family) when I am done but that is how I work. My family is a big supporter of my work so they are very good about living with my books.

Something that struck me about all three of your books is that not only are they full of wonderful ideas and recipes, they are absolutely beautiful to look at. Is it true that you designed them yourself?

Yes! I am a book designer by passion as well as trade. I love it and I hope it shows. It’s always a thrill to hear how people use the books too. It makes me happy to think that I’ve contributed something useful and of quality to the world of kids.

With all that you have going on, when and how do you nurture yourself and “return to center”?

Like so many families today, I sometimes feel that life is moving like a fast train. I’m not sure if it is because we all have a busy family life, or if the world is just moving along at a new clip but I have to stop and get off sometimes. I swim often as a way to relax and quiet down and I make simple projects with my daughter that amuse and delight us. I also simplify my expectations of how much I think I should be doing and have learned to say, “that’s enough.” Usually it is.

What’s next for you and what is the best way for people to follow along with your work?

My sister Julie and I are collaborating on a children’s book. The story is near and dear to me and I love working with Julie because we are creatively simpatico. I am also developing another adorable cookbook for kids.

The very best way to follow me is on my author website and on my blog.

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Thank you Rae for sharing your time with us and for sharing your many talents with the world!

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For a chance to win a copy of Rae’s latest book, Homemade Fun, simply leave a comment here between now and Saturday (6/26) at 8 a.m. EST when I will close the comments and announce the winner.

For a second chance to win, please help spread the word about this giveaway. Blog about it. Tweet about it. Share it on Facebook. Call your friend. Mention it to your sister. It’s all good.  Just come back here and leave a second comment noting what you did to help spread the word, and you will be entered a second time.

Comments closed. I’ll be back over the weekend to announce the winner!

One day last fall my mom handed me a newspaper article about Chris Carr – a mother, elementary school physical education teacher and the author of the book Mother Daze: Tales from the Imperfect Playground. “She seems like someone you’d really like,” my mom said.

I read the article and agreed! Chris was doing a number of local book-signings and I carried that newspaper clipping around for weeks hoping to get to one of them and meet her. But (you know the story) things got busy and then I lost track of the article and never made it to one of her events. A couple of months later I was thrilled to receive an e-mail from Chris, who had seen a sign about my Mamasté Mothers’ Circles and wanted to reach out and say hello.

A week later we met for coffee (at 7 a.m. on a Saturday!!!!) and had the most wonderful conversation about the work we are doing, our families, and our many adventures as women and mothers.

Chris’ book is inspiring and honest and REALLY funny. And I am thrilled to share this space with her.

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Please tell us a little bit about yourself and your family.

I have been married to Andrew Carr for twelve years and we have three children Nolan (10), Jane (6), and Finley (4). I enjoy running and truly believe in the power of positive thinking. I was the Class President and an All State Athlete in high school. At the University of Rhode Island I was a member of the Varsity Tennis team and an active member of the Delta Zeta sorority, eventually becoming the President of my chapter. I obtained my Bachelors Degree from U.R.I. in 1993. Upon graduation, I immediately began my teaching career. I spent many years coaching middle school girl’s basketball and softball, and was the assistant tennis pro at Pt. Judith C.C. for eight years. Eventually I left coaching in order to pursue my Master’s Degree in the Administration of Physical Education and Health Education. My entire thesis research project was based on the over-scheduling of today’s youth and how it related to future burn-out rates among athletes.

What was your transition into motherhood like?

My transition into motherhood was filled with love for a new child, loss of the personal freedom to come and go as I pleased, doubt as to whether or not I knew what the heck I was doing, excitement, fear, exhaustion, wonder, sadness, and lots of enjoyment. You name it, I felt it. To be temporarily disconnected from the land of the living was not easy. However, before that first happy hug was even shared, I felt that overwhelming attraction. I couldn’t wait to see the little face of my newborn. After months of anticipation and 36 hours of labor, he was finally here. It was love at first sight once that swaddled little bunny was placed in my arms… nine pounds of pure sweetness. Yet, it felt like my husband Andy and I had been catapulted into adulthood, launched away from the somewhat carefree lifestyle we had been living, now replaced by a world of new challenges and much less sleep. It wasn’t easy, but I knew an incredible adventure was beginning to unfold.

What inspired you to write Mother Daze and what do you hope readers will take away from the book?

Quite simply, I felt it was finally time women were given a high-five, instead of another list of tasks to accomplish. Mother Daze highlights the undeniable gift of a mother’s true love and places it front and center for every one of us to recognize and be proud of. These days, parents are overstressed, kid’s lives are consistently over-scheduled, and as a result parenting has become an increasingly difficult challenge. It’s work!

I wanted to write a story that dared to tell the truth in a humorous, heartfelt, and entertaining style. The book shines a beaming light down on the “girl that grew up” and reminds her to laugh. I don’t pretend to have the answers nor do I pretend to have this parenting thing all figured out. I’m not asking the women of the world to burn their bras at the local Village Green and I do not conceal a superhero suit of spandex underneath my clothes. Nonetheless, I believed the unrealistic expectations placed on women in today’s society had gone a bit too far and I wanted to celebrate women for all they miraculously manage to get done – every single day!

With all that you have going on (working full time, three young children, writing, book-signings) when and how do you nurture yourself and “return to center”?

I find the best nurturing I can do for my self involves a healthy dose of exercise mixed with a generous dab of time spent with my favorite friendships. I don’t ever actually have the time to exercise… and sometimes I actually don’t want to, either. But I always try to make the time. Nike said it best… “Just do it.”

Running is my exercise of choice and I usually do it at the ungodly hour of 6:00 a.m. It’s free, my mind is cleared, I am connected to my thoughts, and an overall release of existing annoyances is accomplished. As exhausted as I am to get out of that bed, the feeling I get when all is said and done is worth every minute. I do believe in the important correlation of body, mind, and mood. There is a connection – a vital connection to our overall enjoyment in life! It’s not easy. It takes commitment. It’s a choice. Take care of “you” first, and the rest will follow. If I can manage to get in a three mile run and follow that up with a chit-chat over coffee with a good pal, my day will definitely be off to a great start. Unfortunately, that doesn’t always happen but it’s good to set goals.

What’s next for you? How can people best follow along with your work?

There has been a lot of talk about me writing another book. At this point, I have nothing in the works. However, I won’t rule anything out. I’ve always had an interest in writing a children’s book that touches upon the importance of fair play and kindness. And who knows? When my children enter the next phase of life – the teen years – I may grab my pen and start hammering out another “shout-out” to the mamas. For now, people can follow my “Events” schedule at http://www.christine-carr.com or join the Mother Daze Facebook Fan Page and see where I am headed next. The book is available in many Rhode Island bookstores or online at amazon.com, BN.com, Borders.com or directly from the publisher at publishingworks.com.

The next event that women in the area can check out is happening this Friday, May 7. at 7 p.m. The “Mother’s Rock” charity event will take place at Simon’s in Narragansett. It really is just a good excuse to get out of the house on Mother’s Day weekend and have some fun with friends. The cost is $20 at the door. With that, each guest will get a copy of Mother Daze (if they already have one, just give it to a favorite friend), light appetizers are included, and half of the money collected will go towards a charity of choice (to be determined that night). If interested, contact Chris at www.christine-carr.com.

Thank you Chris for sharing your time with us and for sharing your positive message with the world!

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For a chance to win a signed copy of Mother Daze, simply leave a comment here between now and Friday at 8 a.m. EST when I will close the comments and announce a winner.

For a second chance to win, help spread the word about this giveaway. Blog about it, tweet about it, share it on Facebook, call your sister, mention it to your neighbor – it’s all good. (You can use the “share this” button in the lower left hand corner of this post for quick and easy sharing.) Leave a second comment telling us what you did to help spread the word and you’ll be entered a second time.

Comments closed. I’ll be back over the weekend (sooner if I can) to announce the winner!

I found my way to Jamie Martin’s beautiful blog, Steadymom.com, shortly after she launched it in December of 2008. As I followed along with her journey, I felt a connection with Jamie and the work she is doing — both in her home and in the world at large – and have enjoyed many inspiring e-mail exchanges with her over the past year.

It is my great pleasure to share my first exhale audio interview with Jamie Martin, author of Steady Days, creator of Steadymom.com, and mother of three beautiful little people.

The interview is about 45 minutes long so I divided it into two sections (aprox. 26 min. and aprox. 18 min.)  in hopes of making it more convenient for you to listen to.

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jamie martin phone interview 1.30.10part one | part two

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Please keep in mind as you listen to this interview that this was my first time interviewing in this format. It is far from perfect. You’ll hear me awkwardly interrupt or talk over Jamie a few times (sorry Jamie!) and I most definitely need to find a way to get a better sound quality for future interviews. But I hope you will be able to look past the surface blemishes, because the content is rich and beautiful.

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Links to places and things discussed during our interview:

Jamie’s Blogging Resolutions

Moms Unplugged (Don’t waste time online)

Steady Moms’ 30-Minute Blog Challenge

Steady Mom Contributors

Love146.org

SimpleHomeschool.net

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The Giveaway:

For a chance to win a signed copy of Jamie’s beautiful new book Steady Days, simply leave a comment here between now and Friday, Feb. 5 at 8 a.m. EST when I will close the comments and select a winner.

For a second chance to win, help spread the word about this interview and giveaway: Blog about it, tweet about it, link to it on facebook, e-mail your sister, tell your neighbor, share it with your playgroup. It’s all good!! Just be sure to come back here and leave a second comment telling us what you did to help spread the word.

Comments closed. I’ll be back later today to announce the winner!

 Good Luck + thank you Jamie!

I was introduced to Cindy Hudson and her work through Writer Mama Christina Katz’s blog, The Writer Mama Riffs, and was thrilled to have an opportunity to review her first book, Book by Book, The Complete Guide to Creating Mother-Daughter Book Clubs.

 

I brought Cindy’s cheerful book, which takes readers step-by-step through the process of creating and maintaining a mother-daughter book club, along on our recent family vacation and found it to be an absolutely delightful and inspiring read.

 

Cindy has created two long-running book clubs, one with each of her daughters, and she also interviewed numerous mothers about their experiences in their own mother-daughter book clubs. Her book covers everything from how to get started, to how to keep your book club thriving, and how to handle challenges that come up.

 

In Chapter 17: Talking about Sex, Alcohol and other Touchy Subjects Peter L. Benson, PhD says he sees mother-daughter book clubs as the reincarnation of the “circle of elders,” the new campfire, where “elders gather to impart the wisdom they have learned in a non-threatening way. It is powerful to have dialogue in a circle of intergenerational people.”

 

It is with this beautiful image in mind and my gratitude for the important work she is doing, that I welcome Cindy Hudson, author of Book by Book.

 

{Enter to win a copy of Cindy’s book. See the end of the interview for details!}

 

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EBG: Welcome and congratulations on your first book! How does it feel to officially be a published author?

CH: It’s overwhelming and a little bit unreal, but it’s very fun and exciting too.

 

Did you always want to be an author or was this book born out of your passion for mother-daughter book clubs?

I’ve always wanted to write, but I didn’t have my heart set on writing books. My first passion is for writing personal essays, but once I realized that there were few resources available for moms in mother-daughter book clubs, which I truly believe can be life changing, I knew I had to put my heart and soul into this book.

 

I know you are a mother of two daughters, and therefore it was natural for you to create mother-daughter book clubs, but I’m wondering what advice would you offer to those of us who are raising boys?

First off, you can always read within your family. Before I started my mother-daughter book clubs my husband and I both read to our daughters. Sometimes it was a whole family event, with all of us listening to the same book. Ideally, your son would be in a book club with his dad, because there are just some topics you can discuss more freely with members of the same sex as the kids grow up. But if that’s not possible, and you have other moms and sons who want to be in a group, you should definitely create a parent-child book club. When you read together you open up so many avenues into each other’s personal lives, and that’s an invaluable experience to have with your child.

 

Your older daughter, Madeleine, started college this fall, right? What has happened to your book club as the girls have branched out for school?

This year the moms bought tickets to a literary speaker series here in Portland. Our first speaker appeared on the night of move-in day at the dorm, and we thought it was appropriate that as three of us moms gathered for the event, our three daughters were having dinner together in their cafeteria at college. We’re also talking about meeting with the whole group when the girls come home for Christmas and again in the summer. If we’re lucky, some of us will squeeze in a meeting during parents’ weekend in February (four girls decided to attend the same college). The bottom line is, we all want to continue to see each other as a group, so I have to believe we’ll make it work.

 

And now, if it is okay with you, I’d love to ask you a few questions about your writing process.

 

Do you have a dedicated writing space? What does it look/feel like? Is it in-home, out-of-home, multipurpose/shared etc.

I love my office in my home. It’s in a corner that’s tucked away from the main action of the house, which means I can shut my door and concentrate if I’d like, or I can leave it open and be in tune with everything else going on. When my daughters were young, they played on the floor beside my desk. Now, my youngest does homework in another room while I’m finishing up my work day.

 

What is your writing process like? (Do you like to compose in a particular notebook, with a certain pen, at the keyboard, at the coffee shop? Inquiring minds want to know! ;-)

When I’m brainstorming, I like to write ideas out with pen and paper. There’s something about jotting things down and being messy about the process that keeps the ideas flowing. When I write though, I think better at the computer. I guess I’m too impatient to write things down twice, once on paper and again on the keyboard. But I’m not afraid to write a lead that’s terrible, double space and write another, and another until I like what I’m writing. Sometimes I have to go into the body of the article or chapter and go back to revise the beginning. Once I have a rough draft, I often go for a walk. There’s something about getting away from a piece of writing that helps me think of all the missing pieces.

 

With all the exciting things happening in your world, when and how do you nurture yourself physically/emotionally/spiritually?

I get time to relax in bits and pieces, and occasionally I find several hours at once on a weekend. Reading for pleasure is one of the most relaxing things I can do. I read so many books for review, that I find it’s a treat to read something just for enjoyment. I also try to walk everyday. My daughters keep telling me to take an ipod with me so I can enjoy music, but I really like tuning into what’s going on around me. I like to breathe in the fresh air and listen to different bird songs. Massages are good, too, but I don’t get enough of those.

 

What books, magazines, websites/blogs (or other resources) do you turn to for inspiration?

For writing ideas I check out Writer’s Digest and Christina Katz’s ezines. I edit Writers on the Rise for Christina, so I get to read the articles by contributors first. And I find a lot of good tips in her Writer Mama ezine and Get Known Before the Book Deal. For mother-daughter book clubs I have found Julie Peterson of Booking Mama to be a good blogging buddy. And I’m tied into the Kidlitosphere, where you can find lots of good online sites talking about children’s literature.

 

What’s next for you? And what is the best way for people to follow along with your work?

I’m already scheduled to talk about mother-daughter book clubs at bookstores and conferences well into next year, which is exciting. The best news I can hear is when someone tells me they’re starting a book club after they’ve read my book or heard me speak. And I’m working on a couple of new concepts for books, but they’re not quite developed enough to talk about yet. I’ll keep posting my news at MotherDaughterBookClub.com and blogging at MotherDaughterBookClub.wordpress.com, so you can stay tuned there.

 

Thank you so much Cindy for sharing your time with us and for sharing your Light with the world!

 

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To be entered to win a copy of Cindy’s inspiring book, please leave a comment here between now and Sunday at 5 p.m. (EST). Good luck and happy weekend to you!

And the winner is…

Tracy from Give it a Whirl!

Congratulations Tracy and thank you again to Cindy! 

One of the first cookbooks that I purchased as a new mother was Simply Natural Baby Food, by Cathe Olson, which I learned about through Mothering Magazine. I ordered it directly from Cathe and absolutely treasured my signed copy, which is now dog-eared and splattered from years of faithful companionship in the kitchen.

 

Cathe’s second cookbook, The Vegetarian Mother’s Cookbook, was released the year I became pregnant with our second child, and although it was during this pregnancy that I reintroduced meat into my diet (after 17 years as a vegetarian), I still continue to enjoy the cookbook’s nutrient-dense vegetarian meals and healthy snacks.

 

When I recently discovered via Cathe’s Web site, that she had a new cookbook out, I was excited. When I learned that it was all about healthy, non-dairy ice creams, I was thrilled.

 

We certainly love our homemade ice cream around here – Papa is the expert ice cream maker – and we are just getting into fresh, pastured cream season, but since the beginning of this year we have also been consciously eating a bit lighter, and while we don’t intend to give up dairy completely anytime soon, we are certainly consuming a bit less of it. 

 

I am delighted to have another of Cathe’s inspiring cookbooks on our shelves, and to share this space with her today.

 

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EBG: How did you come to do the work you are doing?

CO:  It’s been kind of a strange journey. I’ve always wanted to be a writer and wrote short stories in my spare time but was mostly busy working as a computer systems analyst. In my thirties, however, I got very interested in nutrition and natural foods cooking. After the birth of my first daughter, I became a stay at home mom. When it was time to feed my daughter solid foods, I didn’t want to feed her food from boxes and jars. The only baby food cookbooks I could find used white flour, sugar, jello and stuff like that so I started developing my own recipes. When others kept asking for them, I decided to put them into a book. It was exciting to me to combine writing with my love for healthful, natural foods

 

Please tell us about your family.

I met my husband Gary about 12 years ago and it was literally love at first sight. We were both older and had sort of decided we were meant to be single but we just sparked. We got married and a year later had our first daughter Aimie. Emily was born 2 years after that. Now, Gary and I have been married over 11 years and Aimie is 10 and Emily is 8.

 

 

What was your transition into motherhood like?

The transition into motherhood was hard in some ways and easy in others. I loved my children and felt really lucky that I was able to leave my job and stay home with them. But it was hard too—I missed the independence of my own income. I also felt really isolated at times being home with my children. We lived way out in the woods about 40 minutes from the nearest town. My books were really important to me – I felt like writing was the one thing I was doing just for me. Now that my daughters are older, we have so much fun together. We enjoy cooking, reading, theater, hiking – so many things. I feel really lucky to have such a great family. We love to spend time together but my husband and daughters also realize that I’m a person, as well as a wife and mother, with ambitions and needs and they respect that.

 

How old were your children when you created your first cookbook? What forms did child-minding take during those years?

My first book was actually a booklet called Beyond Rice Cereal that I wrote when Aimie was one and I was pregnant with Emily. I actually typed it up and had it copied and stapled at a local copy shop. I printed 500 copies and sold them at local health food stores. They sold out so fast that I decided to do a full book, which I wrote after my daughter Emily was born. Finding time to write was often difficult. I made a rule for myself that naptime was my time – no housework – and that was when I wrote. When I was writing The Vegetarian Mother’s Cookbook – which is a about four times as big as Simply Natural Baby Food — I was lucky to find a friend that watched my daughters a couple of mornings a week so I could write uninterrupted. I’d also write in the evening after dinner when my husband would have time with the kids. It was definitely an exhausting schedule but it was worth it to me.

 

What forms does education take in your family?  

Education has been an adventure as well. We never did preschool—in large part because of where we lived; it just wasn’t practical. I would have spent more time driving then they’d actually be in preschool. I read a lot about homeschooling and felt because of where we lived and things I’d heard about public school that it would be the best option for our family. I enjoyed it but as my daughters got older I felt really stretched between homeschooling and my writing career. We moved closer to town and had several friends who attended our local public school and had great things to say about it. We enrolled the girls and it really worked out great for our family. While public school isn’t perfect, it’s not nearly as dismal as I’d envisioned. The teachers and administrators are great. My daughters love school, are learning a lot, and are thriving there. I get my writing done in the morning and when they get home from school, I’m totally ready to be with them and I teach them the things I want to supplement their education with – cooking, sewing, music, nature, writing, etc. I’m also involved in the school district wellness committee and have done a lot of nutrition presentations for both parents and students.

 

Can you tell us a little bit about your creative process (in the kitchen or in your writing studio)?

A lot of my creative process takes place before I get to the kitchen or my desk. At the farmers’ market, natural foods store, or in my garden – I’ll start thinking of what I can make for dinner or what foods might be good combined. I do a lot of experimenting when I cook – the hardest part is remembering to write down what I’m doing or how much of each ingredient I’m using because I never know when an experiment will be a ‘keeper’. I write at a desk in the living room, which is fine when the kids are at school and my husband’s at work, but in the evenings or during school vacations, it’s hard to get much done – which is maybe a good thing so I’ll take a break but tough when I’m on a deadline. My family is pretty good though. When I tell them that I need uninterrupted time to write, they’ll listen pretty well. And luckily they’re always happy to taste my recipes.

 

With a successful freelance writing career, three published cookbooks (and another in the works), and an active family life, how and when do you nurture yourself and return to Center? 

Nurturing myself is definitely an area I sometimes neglect – I want to set more time for yoga or walks but am not that good about it. One thing I do almost every night is at 9:00 or 9:30 when the kids are in bed, I stop work (well, most of the time). My husband and I spend some time catching up and then I read for an hour or two before bed. I love to read so that time is really precious to me.

 

What “baby steps” do you suggest for people (parents and others) who would like to shift to more healthful eating? 

Baby steps are a great way to transition into more healthful eating. I usually suggest starting by cutting out (or cutting down) on sweetened drinks. Those add a lot of sugar and calories into your diet and for some reason your brain doesn’t seem to register that it has taken in those calories and doesn’t signal you to feel full. Cutting down on processed foods in general is another great area to address. They’re full of refined flours and sweeteners, artificial flavors and colors, as well as usually high in sodium, fat, and/or sugar. Try to transition to eating more fresh fruits and vegetables, whole grains, and beans and legumes.

 

What’s next for you? And what is the best way for people to follow along with your work? 

My next project is going to be a healthy cookbook for kids. I want kids to have success in the kitchen so I’ll make the instructions very clear for an inexperienced cook, and give them healthy yet tasty foods to make. I’m also working on a chapter book series featuring homeschooled characters–something I wished was around when I was homeschooling.

 

The best way to keep up with what’s happening with me is through my blog or my Facebook page. View my Web site for more information about my books.

 

Thank you Cathe, for sharing your time with us and for sharing your Light with the world!

 

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Cathe has generously offered a signed copy of Lick it!  for one lucky exhale. return to center. reader. To enter leave a coment below by Sunday at 5 p.m. EST, when I will choose one commenter at random.

 

Good luck! And happy weekend!

 

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Comments closed. And the winner is…

 

Carrie, who said: Oooh dairy free ice cream, a rare treat round here as it is so expensive to buy would love to learn to make some. Great interview, thanks Cathe & Erin x

 

Congrats Carrie!! Thanks Cathe!! And thanks to everyone for the supportive comments!!

I was first introduced to Cynthia Lair and her work nearly five years ago, as a brand new mom who was eagerly searching for information and inspiration about healthy eating. Someone recommended Cynthia’s book, Feeding the Whole Family, to me and I was so impressed by the book that I contacted Cynthia and organized a bulk order of cookbooks for everyone in my mommy and baby yoga class. Since that time, I have often referred back to this wonderfully inspiring and practical introduction to whole foods cooking, and have enjoyed reading Cynthia’s articles that appear regularly in Mothering Magazine.

 

As those who follow along here know, I have been in a bit of a cooking rut recently and have been focusing some energy and attention on creating weekly meal plans and reconnecting with my love of cooking. In this process, I am again revisiting Cynthia’s work, including her fun, inspiring (and deliciously silly ;-) online cooking show, Cookus Interuptus.

 

It is my great pleasure to share this space with the incredibly-inspiring Cynthia Lair.

 

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EBG: How did you come to do the work you are doing?

CL:  It has been a 25+ year journey so a lot has happened.  I became interested in nutrition when my mother was suffering with cancer. Someone in my acting class in NYC (of all places) told me about macrobiotics. The Eastern philosophy was brand new to me and I was fascinated with the concept of food as a healing agent – so much so that I entered a 3-year program studying nutrition in NYC. My mother was beyond using food to heal herself, but my avid curiosity about food and health began shaping my life. In school I focused all of my papers and projects on maternal and infant nutrition. I thought – why not start at the very beginning of life with wholesome, health-giving food! Shortly after finishing nutrition school I began teaching at the Natural Gourmet Cooking Institute in NYC. Annemarie Colbin, the founder,  has always been a mentor for me – she is so sensible. Simultaneously I became pregnant and my daughter was born in 1987. 

As I fed her simple food from the table, right from the start, a book started nagging my brain. I had never wanted to be a writer or a chef. I didn’t know how to type – oh my. But the book would not leave me alone. I finished the first edition of Feeding the Whole Family in 1994. Being an author of a natural foods cookbook gave me an entry into Bastyr University (School of Natural Medicine) located in our new hometown – Seattle and I began teaching an extensive nutrition and cooking course for the school. Today I am still teaching that course and others and am director of the culinary program at Bastyr University. I also teach a version of the course for the UW School of Nursing. 

 

 

My latest adventure, Cookus Interruptus, combines all of the things I love. For the first time in my life I am utilizing my ability to teach cooking, my nutrition education, my acting and improvisational theater skills and my repertoire of natural foods recipes all in one setting. This is pretty exciting for me.

 

Can you please tell us about your family?

I am married to a very kind and patient man named Michael. Our daughter, Grace, is a beautiful young woman that is athletic and strong. We have no extended family in Seattle. Both Michael and I were raised in Kansas where most of our relatives reside. We met, however, in NYC.

 

What was your transition into motherhood like?

It was not easy for me. I was used to being very independent. Though Grace was born in NYC we moved to Seattle when she was one-and-a-half. I left behind my friends, community, career opportunities, everything. This made young motherhood very difficult. I always felt very committed to being present for my child and carved my life so that I could be a full-time parent and also continue to do creative work.

 

When your daughter was younger, what forms did child-minding take in your family?  

My husband and I shared the work of parenting. We both had flexible work and so Grace enjoyed a great deal of attention from us. I wrote in the evenings and Michael did most of the evening and nighttime routine with Grace. He read many novels aloud to Grace and enjoyed this a great deal.

 

Do you have a designated creative space?

I have always had a designated creative space in my home, even when we lived in a one room loft in NYC.  I have my desk and I don’t share it with anyone else. Each member of our family has their own space.

 

With all that you have going on – teaching, writing, cooking, creating – how and when do you nurture yourself physically/emotionally/spiritually?

I take good care of myself. I visit wonderful practitioners in Seattle and use homeopathy and acupuncture as preventative medicine. I swim, walk around the lake and take yoga regularly. I find all three relaxing and meditational. Most of the time, I find cooking very relaxing. I put on music, set up a mise en place with my ingredients, clean as I go and use quality ingredients. All of these things make the experience enjoyable for me. When I lived in NYC I supported myself with my acting work. I still keep this up. One of greatest joys (and the key to my mental health) is that I perform regularly with an improvisational comedy group.

 

What “baby steps” would you offer parents (and others) who want to eat healthier but are not sure where to begin?

Make a small adjustment, like learning how to cook a new whole grain or dark leafy green, every 4-6 weeks. Prioritize the changes you’d like to make using joy and enthusiasm as criteria, not “have to” or “should”. 

 

Simply being curious about where your food comes from – where and how it was grown, is a nice first step too. The Cookus Interruptus video “What is a whole food?” gives guidance in this direction. I think striving to make sure there is something fresh served each day is a worthwhile goal – even if it is just apple slices.

 

What books, magazines, websites/blogs (or other resources) do you turn to for inspiration?

So many!

 

Here’s a book list:

1.       Albi, Joanne and Catherine Walthers.  Greens Glorious Greens (St. Martin’s Press, 1996).

2.       Colbin, Annemarie.  Food and Healing (Ballantine, 1986).

3.       Cook’s Illustrated Editors. 834 Kitchen Quick Tips: Techniques and Shortcuts for the Curious Cook.  (America’s Test Kitchen, 2006).

4.       David, Marc, The Slow Down Diet (Healing Arts Press, 2005)

5.       Fallon, Sally.  Nourishing Traditions (ProMotion Publishing, 1995).

6.       Fortin, Francois.  The Visual Food Encyclopedia (Macmillan, 1996).

7.       Green, Aliza.  Field Guide to Produce (Quirk Books, 2004).

8.       Katz, Sandor Ellix.  Wild Fermentation.  White River Junction, VT: Chelsea Green Publishing, 2003.

9.       Kingsolver, Barbara.  Animal, Vegetable, Miracle: A Year of Food Life (HarperCollins, 2007)

10.   McGee, Harold.  On Food and Cooking (Collier Books, 1984).

11.   The Moosewood Collective, Sundays at Moosewood Restaurant (Simon and Schuster, 1990).

12.   Nestle, Marion.  What to Eat. North Point Press, 2006

13.   Nestle, Marion. Food Politics (University of California, 2003)

14.   Pitchford, Paul.  Healing with Whole Foods (North Atlantic Books, 1993).

15.   Pollan, Michael.  The Omnivore’s Dilemma (Penguin Press, 2006)

16.   Price DDS, Weston.  Nutrition and Physical Degeneration (Price Pottenger Foundation, 1945, 1970).

17.  Robinson, Jo.  Pasture Perfect  (Vashon Island Press, 2004)

18.   Tyler Herbst, Sharon.  Food Lover’s Companion (Barron’s Educational Series, 1995)

19.   Wansink, PhD, Brain.  Mindless Eating. (Bantam Books, 2006)

20.   Wood, Rebecca.  The Splendid Grain (William Morrow, 1997).

 

Blogs and websites I like:  Local Harvest, Organic Consumer’s Association, Marion Nestle, Culinate, The Ted Talks and more…

 

What’s next for you? And what is the best way for people to keep in touch and follow along with your creative culinary adventures?

 

Bastyr University is starting a new culinary arts/nutrition degree that I am very involved in. My creative energy is mainly being channeled on the web via Cookus Interruptus. We post a new recipe video every week. I keep a blog there too where I write about what’s on my nutrition nerd mind or respond to questions that our followers ask. The site is immediate and entertaining which makes it tremendously fun. We love it when people subscribe (free!), tell a friend, comment and in general interrupt-us!

  

Thank you Cynthia – for sharing your time (and incredible collection of resources) with us and for sharing your Light with the world!!!

 

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Cynthia has graciously offered to send a signed copy of Feeding the Whole Family to one exhale. return to center. reader. To enter leave a comment here by noon (EST) on Monday, when I will select one winner at random. Good luck and Happy Weekend!

 

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Comments closed. And the winner is…

mindfulmama who said: I recently revamped my diet and this book has been recommended to me a billion times! Gotta get it one way or another :-)

 

Congrats and happy, healthy eating to you! Thank you Cynthia!!!

I first discovered Sage Cohen’s work through Writer Mama Chistina Katz’s blog. As I read Sage’s guest posts I always find myself savoring every word she writes and eagerly anticipating more. Most recently I have been following along as she shares the beautiful story of the recent births of her “mixed-media twins— her first child and her first book.

 

I was already smitten by Sage and her writing, but when I read this on her website, I felt a soul connection to Sage and the work that she is doing.

 

“I am striving to understand how we can live more kindly, create more joy, and find more freedom to be who we are. Because I believe that telling the truth is the most important choice we can make in reclaiming our lives, I write.”

 

In honor of National Poetry Month, and the release of Sage’s book, Writing the Life Poetic, it is my great honor to welcome Sage Cohen.

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ebg: How did you come to do the work you are doing?

sc: With a great deal of intention, focus, hard work, love, and patience.

 

When did you first call yourself a poet?

My relationship with poetry was as unselfconscious as breathing for nearly a decade until, at the age of 23, one day the thought struck me: I write and read poetry every day. Maybe this means I’m a (gulp) poet!

 

What is your creative writing process like? 

My creative writing process has been different in each chapter of my life. This is reflected in my collection of poems Like the Heart, the World. The book is organized in three sections, to reflect three consecutive geographies in my life: New York, San Francisco and Portland.

 

In New York, I walked everywhere and carried a small, handheld tape recorder where I whispered my little slivers of street-sightings and trash tracings. Then I’d transcribe these observations into the computer later and write from there. In San Francisco, I had a regular rhythm of freewriting (in longhand, in notebooks) in cafes, often while listening to live acoustic music. I took Natalie Goldberg seriously when she advised not to write in anything too precious—and I went through dozens of regular ‘ole spiral bound notebooks. These days, I have somewhat of a hybrid of my previous two practices. I carry 3×5” index cards everywhere and write down everything that comes—usually while hiking or taking a bath. Eventually, I transcribe these into a document on my computer, which is where I do most of my composing and revising of poems. I don’t do too much freewriting any more, as I don’t seem to need it to drop into the poetry zone like I used to…I also still write in public when I can—I find the stimulation and noise invigorating.

 

In your work with poets and aspiring poets, have you found that there are common challenges to expressing oneself poetically? And how do you help people to overcome these challenges?

While everyone has their own, unique hang-ups, they’re all generally some variation on the theme of doubt in their capacity to succeed in the realm of poetry. Though I work with poets on craft, process and idea generation, I think the most valuable contribution I can make is my confidence that they have what it takes to enjoy writing poetry and enthusiasm about what’s working in their poems.

 

 

Can you please tell us about your family?

I am blessed with a house full of beings I love: my husband Jon, son Theo, dogs Henry and Hamachi and cats Diablo and Valentino. For nearly a decade before meeting Jon, I lived what some would define as “alone”. Because I had the company of some combination of five cats and two dogs during those years, I was flooded on a daily basis with the exchange of unconditional love. There’s nothing less “alone” than that in my book. I still love sleeping sandbagged-in-place by the cats (what’s a little dirt on the bed, right?), and the ecstatic dance of greeting that happens every time I walk in the front door. I wonder what this world would be like if we all greeted each other this way with each meeting.

 

  

 

What was your transition into motherhood like?

Sixty-plus hours of an unmedicated home birth journey, followed by an emergency C-Section and then a week doped up on Percocet! It was an Initiation with a capital I!

 

What forms does child-minding take in your family?

I work from home and our incredibly fabulous nanny spends a chunk of the day with us four days a week. On Fridays my husband, who is in medical school, is on child-minding duty for five hours while I work. The rest of my work happens on evenings and weekends when Theo is asleep. On Friday nights, my husband’s twin brother babysits so we can go out on a date; that’s quite special.

 

Do you have a dedicated work space/studio? What does it look/feel like? Is it in-home, out-of-home, multipurpose/shared etc.

I sure do, and boy am I grateful! (Years ago, when I first started working from home, my “office” was a tiny desk in a bedroom I shared with my boyfriend who was often trying to sleep as I was trying to work. It took more than five years to cultivate a room of my own from there.) My creative studio is a converted attic space on the top floor of our house. It has sloped ceilings, lovely ambient light, a bathroom with a clawfoot tub and a fireplace. It feels like a sanctuary, and I can’t wait to get up there every day to dive in.

 

 

With all the exciting things happening in your world, when and how do you nurture yourself physically/emotionally/spiritually?

I hike with the dogs and baby every morning and take a bath every night. These bookends of receptivity create a wonderful frame around days that are pretty intensely accomplishment-oriented. I also get acupuncture and massage, pet the animals, kiss my son, attend readings whenever I possibly can, talk on the phone to my beloved friends all over the country and enjoy the delicious, nutritious meals that my husband Jon cooks. And most importantly–the breath and heartbeat and prayer beneath it all—I write.

 

 

What advice would you share with others who have a creative spirit and big dreams?

Write down every reason you might not be able to do what you want to do. Make sure to list every person and thing in your way…every grudge you’re holding…every negative thing someone told you about how or why you can’t do it. Let the list be exhaustive.

 

When you’re finished, burn the list and let it all go. Then put your butt in the chair and get to it!

 

Thank you Sage for sharing your time with us and for sharing your light with the world!

 

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Sage has generously offered a signed copy of her beautiful new book, Writing the Life Poetic, to two exhale. return to center. readers. To enter just leave a comment here between now and Sunday at 4 p.m. EST.

 

Good luck and happy weekend to you!!

 

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Comments closed. And the winners are…

Terri, who said: Awesome! I love it and can’t wait to be the winner of one of Sage’s books! :)

 

and Denise, who said: I like these interviews. A fellow PNW’er too!

 

Congratulations to you both (you are going to LOVE the book!!!!) and thank you again, Sage!

As I get ready to create my third Treasure Map, and this year, for the first time, to host a Treasure-Mapping funshop, I thought it would be great to talk with Tracy Cook, the undisputable Queen of Treasure-Mapping, and get the full low-down on this amazingly powerful process and the fabulously inspiring woman behind it.

ebg: Before we get to Treasure-Mapping, can you tell us a bit about yourself and your family?

tc: I live in Los Angeles with my husband and seven year old son. My career has been primarily in the entertainment business-working as a television writer and producer. My husband also works in television and my son likes watching it.

What was your transition into motherhood like?
It was both very natural and very odd. “Natural” in that taking care of my son and nurturing him was instinctive. I almost could do it without thinking but at the same time I did not have my son until I was 43 so it was an odd to finally be doing something so natural and so instinctive after so many years of only producing and writing TV. Of course by that time I had been working in television for twenty on years so it was I guess also instinctive. But not as rewarding as motherhood, I promise you!

In what ways did you nurture your spirit, or “return to center” in the early months/years of parenting? In what ways do you do so now?
Ah, the return to center question. This is a big discussion among all moms, isn’t it? I think for me the smartest thing I ever did was move the center point. In the first years of my son’s life I still had this imaginary center point that said, “As soon as he is done nursing I will be able to get my life back.” Or “As soon as he goes to preschool” or “As soon as he does this or that” – of course the whole thing is a big joke because there is no ‘getting back’ to that life. That life is morte. Once I figured that out I learned to be grateful for a moment or an hour or a day where I could find myself. Sometimes by writing or connecting online through community boards or making a coffee date with a friend or going to a spa or my personal favorite watching a whole bunch of TOP CHEFs in a row. Thank god, my husband will give me that space.

What forms does education take in your family?
We are in public school. We looked and very much considered private but in the end we landed at a public school. My son is thriving there and the whole family has embraced the school community one hundred percent. It has been a lot of hard work and a lot of joy.

Okay! Now let’s talk Treasure Maps, shall we? First of all, for the benefit of exhale. return to center. readers who are new to Treasure-Mapping, could you give us a quick run down of exactly what a Treasure Map is?
A Treasure Map is simple. Do you remember when you were in 9th grade art class and your art teacher taught you how to make collages? You would cut out images and glue them onto cardboard and usually there was some kind of theme? Well, that basically is a Treasure Map. Except the difference is that the theme is all about one thing-YOU. Specifically, all of the images on your collage are the things that you want in your life for the next year. And this map is made during one time of the year, on the Aries New Moon. I learned about Treasure Maps from my old astrology teacher Buz Meyers who demanded we all make our first maps in 1996. My friends and I had immediate success with our Maps and then proceeded to do them every year. Sometimes the maps were more complicated than other years and some years are more fruitful than other years, but I never skip year.

This sounds like something many of us do when we set New Year’s intentions. Can you explain why the Aries new moon (March 26, 2009) is the best possible time to create Treasure Maps?
It is a lot like New Year’s intentions but as one who has done both, let me tell you, a Treasure Map is much more intense and much more productive. The reason why we do these maps on Aries new moon is because in Astrological terms, Aries is the first sign of the zodiac and the beginning of the real new year. I know when you look at the calendar January 1st looks the beginning of the new year but really Aries is the beginning. The sign Aries is associated with eyesight and there is something about needing to see something to make it so which is why we make Treasure Maps. With Aries you are riding the wave like a surfer. If you get on a surf board and paddle way off shore you can get on a wave and ride it all the way to shore. Maybe even miles. But if you get on a surfboard and go about ten feet from shore and try to get on the wave you will get thrown to the sand and crash into shore. The same can be said for Treasure Maps. If you build the Map on Aries new moon you get the whole astrological year to manifest your dreams and wishes. If you build your map in January or February you are sort of wasting your time. You are near the end of the wave and will be crashing on shore soon. So, that does not make a whole lot of sense. Ever since The Secret I have been seeing a lot of Vision Boards discussed on Television and cyberally and I don’t doubt they can be fruitful but my guess is that a lot don’t manifest much for the simple reason they are created at the wrong time of the year.

Do you have any favorite Treasure Map manifestation stories that you’d be willing to share with us?
Well, I think the very first map I made was one of my favorites. I have discussed this often when talking about Treasure Maps. The first map I made I made with my two other friends. We all gathered together and walked up the street to the newspaper stand, there we bought about a hundred dollars worth of magazines, marched back to my friend’s house and plowed through the magazines yelling out all kinds of things to one another.

“Hey, I found a diamond watch does anyone want it?” or “Oh, a BMW would be nice, anyone see one?” Of course, we also yelled out things about the celebrities that were in many of the magazines and I am pretty sure I bitched about everyone’s hideous Botox injections. But somewhere in the mix I found a great image of a guy on a sailboat. It was from a Ralph Loren Ad and there was something about the guy that I liked. Naturally, he was cute after all it was Ralph Loren ad but there was something more about his energy that I just picked up on. It was a confidence and a playfulness. (Gosh, now thinking about it, I am sure that the photographer had to work hard to get that impression because there were white caps behind the boat which means that the sea was a bit choppy and who can look confident in that?)

But anyway, the point of this long story is that the deal with Treasure Maps is that when you start a Treasure Map on Aries New Moon you will start to see results by Cancer New Moon (June/July). Well, at the end of May I met a guy on a job and by June we were traveling together for work and by July we started dating. That guy later became my husband. And my husband was then and now a sailor. His family is a member of a yacht club. He was just like my guy from my Treasure Map.

My friend who also built her map on that New Moon, put a huge diamond wedding ring on her map and a fabulous crown. She met the man who would be her husband within a month and he turned out to be a baron. Once they married she became a baroness. We of course all thought about her diamond crown on her first map!

Do you recommend making a Treasure Map with children? And if so do you have any tips on the process?
In terms of children I think it really depends on the mom. I mean I start my Treasure Maps with my girlfriends but I never finish them with them. It takes too much time and frankly I need all three days to get my map done. But somewhere along the line I encourage my son to make his own map. Usually, when I am still working on mine. I usually get some magazines and have him pick out images. I do help him a bit by telling him to draw something that he would do for fun at school or ask him to put down a place he would like to vacation. My husband makes his own map on his own time. Usually our house looks like an arts and crafts studio for about a week.

What’s the best way for people to be in touch with you and follow along with your work?
People can follow the rules to Treasure Maps by going to Margaret Wendt’s website where I post my new moon articles. About a week before March 26, I will put up the Aries Treasure Map article. Additionally, I am going to have a link to Treasure Maps on my own astrology blog.

Anything else you’d like to share with exhale. return to center. readers?
If for some reason your readers stumble upon Treasure Maps after March 26 but before Taurus New Moon, they should still make their maps. I like to have my map done within the first 3.5 days of New Moon but I know there are some people who need the whole waxing moon (first half of the lunar cycle) or some need the whole lunar phase (28 days). I encourage your readers to make their map if they are still in the window.

I don’t exactly remember how Eileen Straiton and Little Acorn Learning found their way into my world, but I knew as soon as I read about Eileen and her nature-inspired daily guides, that it was just what I was needing to bring a little more rhythm and connection into my often-frazzled days at home with our young children.

Eileen’s guides, which are sent in an e-book format, are designed for home daycare providers and parents and are filled with seasonal activities, crafts, stories, songs, recipes and inspiration. (I store mine in my monthly inspiration binder.) They also contain weekly meditations for caregivers, which I always look forward to reading.

It is my great pleasure to introduce Eileen Straiton, creator of Little Acorn Learning, a home daycare provider, writer, artist and mother of four.

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ebg: How did you come to do the work you are doing?
es: When my second child was born I desperately wanted to be at home to raise my girls. In order to do so I opened a family home daycare out of the lower level of my house. I wanted to offer my girls and the children in my program a nurturing home life that placed emphasis on the arts and nature. To better organize myself, I wrote a monthly program to use in my home daycare. The program includes weekly themes, festivals and holidays to celebrate, nature crafts, recipes, children’s meditation ideas, nature walk verses and a caregiver meditation for myself. It gives deep meaning to the work I do with the children that come into my life. I offered the program to other childcare providers, parents and homeschoolers who were looking to create a healthy rhythm to their day and provide their children with a more holistic childcare experience.

Tell us about your family.
When I met my current husband I was a single mother of a five year old daughter. I worked very hard to support myself and my young child on one income. I have a deep understanding and admiration for women who struggle daily to find balance in their lives between work and family. My wonderful husband adopted my daughter who is now fourteen years old. He is an amazing father and provider. He works full time but also enjoys woodworking and home improvement projects when he has free time. In addition, we have three daughters together ages 7, 4 and 2. I absolutely love having daughters and always wanted to have a large family. I cherish every moment I spend with my husband and girls.

With a thriving online business, a home daycare, four children, and day-to-day household activities, how/when do you make space for self-care and what forms does it take?
Like all parents, I struggle to find the balance necessary to manage all that I do. I always put my home and my family before my work and because of this I will often have to utilize nap times or evenings to do my freelance writing. Writing is a creative outlet for me and is a form of my self-care. I’m very lucky to have found work that I enjoy so much. I also enjoy knitting, creating mixed media art, yoga and nature. Time spent with the children in my program involves much of my self-care as well – we go outside in all but the most extreme weather, we go on nature hikes, sing songs, finger knit, read stories, paint and even do yoga together! Regardless of what I am doing each day, I spend 15 minutes doing my caregiver meditation that is included in my monthly guides. This gives me time to be in silence and it brings me back to living in the present moment.

Can you tell us about your home classroom? What does it look like and feel like? How do you decide what toys and other items to use with the children?
My husband created beautiful wood wall shelving and cubbies for my childcare room. He also makes playstands and we have one in the center of our playspace with a canopy and silk on top. I try to choose natural toys and art supplies whenever possible for the children. Human Beings are drawn to nature and natural materials. It is who we are. That’s not to say that we do not have some plastic items or that every single crayon we own is made of beeswax… but for the most part I try to keep the childcare space as natural as possible.

Do you have a special writing and/or meditation space in your home? Can you tell us about it?
Believe it or not I do most of my writing on my living room couch! That’s also where I spend most of my quiet time when the children are sleeping. We are in the process of putting on an addition which will include a craft room/office for me. When that part of the house is done, I am sure I will take advantage of it for more quiet time especially on the weekends! 

What forms does education take in your family? And how did you come to this decision?
I am deeply inspired by what Waldorf Education has to offer children especially in the early childhood years. Much of what I do and write is influenced by Waldorf ideas and philosophies. My ideal situation would be to send the girls to our local Waldorf school, however with such a large family and very high tuition costs it is not an option. Currently, my two oldest daughters attend our town’s local school and my youngest two daughters attend my in-home Kindergarten program. I firmly believe that the most important thing in a child’s life is a secure and loving home and I work hard to provide that each day.

In my work with new mothers (and in my own experience) I have found many naturally-minded mothers struggling with the desire to be perfect and to get everything “right” when it comes to raising, feeding, and educating their children. Have you experienced this struggle yourself and can you share any words of encouragement for new mothers who look at this beautiful program that you have created and may feel overwhelmed or like they are not doing enough.
Absolutely! I often have to stop and remind myself that it is ok to just be. In my program, I make sure that caregivers know not to feel like they have to complete each activity that I have in my guides. The idea is for them to create a nurturing environment for their children and a healthy rhythm to their day while finding the time to fill their soul. Working with small children takes us in many different directions – the first priority is to care for ourselves and the children. Caregivers must allow themselves the freedom to follow the day’s lead. Life happens daily and it will be a rare occasion that you get to everything you want to do. Even doing some of the things in my guides will help create a healthy rhythm to your day.

Do you have a television in your home? If yes, can you describe when/how it is used? If no, how long have you been tv-free? How did you come to this decision (to use or not use or limit use of television) and how is it working in your family?
Little Acorn Learning does not use television, video games, computers or hand held games during daycare hours. We occasionally enjoy books on tape or child-appropriate music. My own older children will occasionally watch a carefully selected video or non-commercial television program such as PBS after childcare hours or on weekends. The television programs geared toward our children today are often violent, lacking values, promote materialism and include sexual innuendos. We are not a Hanna Montana household! I strive to create a natural, nurturing, home-like environment that stimulates children’s bodies, spirits and souls. In order to do this effectively, I must be very mindful of what images the children are exposed to. It is not an easy task but it is very important to me.

What’s next for you and Little Acorn Learning?
I have so many ideas but such little time! I would love to write a few hardcover books and possibly publish a few children’s books. I have put countless hours into my daycare guides and may soon offer monthly supplements for previous subscribers who want to add some new ideas to the program. I would love to create a program for working moms and mothers with children in traditional schools as I was once in their shoes. My husband is in the process of building an amazing workshop and we will once again offer our wooden playstands and expand by offering other natural toys and playthings. I would also like to expand my online store with products that support caregivers in their work with young children. Eventually I hope to offer weekly newsletters that would give small businesses the opportunity to offer their products to our subscribers. The best way to keep in touch with what we are doing is to join our mailing list which you can do from our website or my blog.

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Eileen has generously offered a free subscription to her March guide for one lucky exhale. return to center. reader! Just leave a comment here between now and Sunday, Feb. 22., at 2 p.m. EST to be entered!

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The winner (thanks to random.org) is…

mandy: “That’s so awesome. I run a home preschool and I can only imagine how much her guides would enrich my ‘curriculum’.”

Congrats Mandy and thank you Eileen!!!

It is my great pleasure to introduce Jen Lashua of Love & Tea Co. I discovered Jen’s beautiful (and I do mean beautiful!!) teas a little over a year ago when my tired-mama-self was needing a little love. Since that time, Jen’s Mellow Mama tea has been a staple in our house (along with our other favorite, Fairy Celebration Tea).
 
Recently when I started planning my mini-retreats for mothers, one of the first things I decided was that I wanted to serve Love & Tea Co.’s delicious teas.

I hope you are able to carve out a few quiet moments for yourself (preferably while sipping tea ;-) and enjoy getting to know an amazing, and inspiring, Mama.

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ebg: How did you come to do the work you are doing?

jl: Love & Tea Co. sprouted from my life long passion for herbs, art, and natural health.

I started studying and working with herbs 15 years ago.

My interest in herbs began in Vermont, when I took a harmonic massage class with herbalist, Sage Blue. Her teachings sparked in me a deep and profound interest in healing with plants. I then went on to study Botany in Oregon and Colorado. In Colorado I studied Western Herbalism at Rocky Mountain Center for Botanical Studies, where I focused on women and children’s health. With a concentration in pregnancy and post-partum care.

I then went on to further study Ayurvedic healing and Yoga. I became a Certified Yoga instructor. While living in Colorado, my partner Keith and I opened an organic bakery and café. After four years of owning and operating a retail and wholesale bakery, we felt like we needed to get back to our calling of art, herbs, and music. So we headed back East to Vermont and Love & Tea was born – and three kids!

How many hours a week do you (typically) focus on your business and/or your art?

Wow! I never thought about the time I put in for each week! Normally with previous jobs I could calculate this right away!

I work on the business daily…not a day goes by, that I am not doing something. I feel truly grateful to be doing something I love.

I feel each tea is an outward expression of my love of life and my art. Each tea is blended and packed with this in mind. I look at each tea and see the art in it…it may be as simple as placing a single rose petal or Jasmine flower, but it’s amazing what this creates!

I created a lot of my artwork while pregnant. With each of my pregnancies I made time to paint. I like to reflect back and see what art was inspired by each of my children. I look forward to continuing to paint and make new creations.

Do you have a dedicated work space/studio? What does it look/feel like?

Nestled in the hills of the Green Mountains is our tea studio. Our studio sits on our three acres of land and backs to a forest.

It’s very “Zen” like. We wanted to create a space that felt good to be in. The tea studio has Japanese Bamboo Shoji screens, Eastern & Tibetan art, wood floors, a large picture window that lets the natural light in, healing plants grow in the bay window, large glass containers filled with healing herbs, and Himalayan Pink Sherpa Salt sit on top of an eight foot long wooden work table.

Can you tell us about your family?

We have three children, ages 3.5, 1.5 and 4 months! My Partner is a musician. Music has been his life long passion and now he is releasing his first CD. Both of our work is about expressing the spirit within into the outer world . . . so for Keith, music comes from a place deep within and seeks to express outwardly . . . to bring peace, love and joy. As you can imagine, lots of our work gets tended to at night when the wee ones are asleep.

During the day we are busy playing, teaching, feeding, and chasing them around while we take short breaks to blend tea . . . lots of fun, always busy!

What forms does child-minding take in your family? (out-of-home care, in-home care, shared between partners, extended family etc.)

In-home shared between Keith and I. But now we do have a wonderful nanny to come in a few days a week to help. My Mom lives nearby and she helps a lot too. She’s a very wonderful Grandmother who always has a great time taking the children out for fun and adventure!

What forms does (will) education take in your family? (public, private, charter, homeschooling, unschooling etc.)

Not quite sure yet. I do feel drawn to Waldorf principles.

With three children under four and a thriving business, when/how do you nurture yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually?

This is one very, very IMPORTANT thing we as mothers must do.

Take time to nurture and care for ourselves. It’s often quite easy to get caught up in caring for our children and attending to our businesses, and forget we need care too! It’s crucial to make the time and space to care for us Mamas.

Each day, even if it’s five minutes I take a small break. I sit down for a moment to look out at the trees or gaze at the clouds or look at the light reflecting the snow crystals. Other times, I may take a warm bath and soak in my bath salts. I also try to make time to go light a candle and sit for inner reflection. And I recharge by drinking tea! I make it an evening ritual.

What books, magazines, websites (or other resources) do you turn to for inspiration?

I have been reading a lot of Tibetan books lately…The Tibetan Art of Parenting, Tibetan Sound Healing, and Tibetan Thangka Painting. I enjoy reading Shambhala Sun Magazine. I do find inspiration in listening to positive music. I haven’t had much time to be on web sites lately.

What advice would you share with parents who dream of starting their own business (or writing their own book…or moving to another country…or buying land to farm etc.)?

Follow your heart and your truth. Trust. When you trust in the Universe, everything else falls into place. Trust in your self. Remember, mamas are mighty and we can make amazing accomplishments!

Listen to your heart. Even when times feel impossible, know that you must push on through! Remember it’s ok to ask for help on your journey, and remember where you want to go. Make your work something that you love. If your love is in your work, it will show.

As an additional note of current issues that will impact many entrepreneurs: the CPISA is attempting to pass laws that will make it practically impossible for common people to make anything related to children including books. That’s all I’ll say here, but there is plenty of information online.

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And now (drum roll please) I am SO pleased to share my first ever giveaway here on my blog…

Jen and Keith have graciously offered to give a $25 gift certificate to Love & Tea Co. to one lucky exhale. return to center. reader!

To enter the contest, leave a comment below (between now and Sunday at 6 p.m. EST) sharing which teas or bath products you will choose if you win!

I’ll close the comments then (assuming I figure out how to do that between now and then ;-) and use this cool free online random integer generator to pick the winner!

Additionally, Jen and Keith are offering a special discount from now until Saturday, Jan. 24th for all exhale. return to center. readers! Use the code “exhale” when you checkout to receive 10% off any purchase over $8.90. Jen says she will also tuck a little extra surprise into the packages as well!

Thanks Jen! 

{Edited to say: I’m being told by my proofreader (aka my mom! :-) that there is no place to leave comments and my font is kind of wonky. Not sure why this is or what to do about it…

Back to say: Why don’t we put comments in a new thread above this one?}

 

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